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Signs

Posted in Dating, Life. Or something like it., Love with tags , , , on September 9, 2009 by samudranb

Sometimes, things just seem so simple, its beautiful.

Calling this short-film beautiful would be an understatement.

FartingPen

I concur.

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“Love broadcaster”

Posted in About me, Dating, Muses on May 4, 2009 by samudranb

Don’t ask me what that is supposed to mean. Its one of the many titles I have earned from my friends.

Apparently, I “have a 360 degree radar for love”.

Like I said, don’t ask me what that means.

More than finding it objectionable, I find it hilarious and intriguing! Enough to merit a blogpost i say!! 🙂

I would agree that I seem to get along better with women, than with guys.  I definitely have more female “friends”.  And no, not as many “ummfriends“.

And as much as I would love/hate to be one, I am no “man-slut” either.

I wonder why it is then that throughout my short adult life, I have been linked with soooooooooo many girls/women, with whom I share absolutely no chemistry and have absolutely no interest in pursuing anything beyond a strictly platonic relationship in the first place! And believe you me when I say this, I am finding out more and more about my supposed “link-ups” every week!

Is this a particularly Indian trait? Of attaching undue importance to any opposite gender relationship (whether real or imaginary)? Are Indian men genuinely that bad, that even a friendly “hi-hello” with a reasonably attractive woman seems to them (and the other females, whose expectations have been reduced to hopeless levels) to be absolutely unquestionable proof of something less platonic?

Do all Indian men face this? Or am I the only one subjected to such generalizations?

Do I find many women attractive? Sure, I do. Do I flirt with all of them? OK, if you say so. Would I like to have anything serious with anybody at this point in life? Sure, I would. Do I have anything serious going on at the moment? Hmm.

The most commonly recurring theme in my life story seems to be of me finding a smart, sexy, fire-works inducing female, and then finding out that she doesn’t have any game. The “smart” part is an illusion. The “sexy” part,  limited. The “fire-works”, a drab, fizzling out affair. And me getting bored. Usually within 2 dates.

The 2nd most commonly recurring theme in my life story seems to be of me finding a smart, sexy, fire-works inducing female, and then finding out that she is in some other city. Or moving to one in a month.

Am I being too picky? Maybe.

Am I going to change? Not in this lifetime.